Why you are the way you are

Why do I change depending on who I'm with?

You shift your tone, your opinions, even your laugh depending on who is in the room. What that pattern is, what it costs, and why nothing is wrong with you.

Why do I notice the mood in a room before anyone speaks?

You register a change in tone before anyone says a word, and others seem to miss it. Why some people perceive so much, and what it costs.

Why do I make a plan before anyone asks?

You have the agenda ready before the meeting is called and feel uneasy when things stay undefined. What that pattern is and how to live with it well.